Sunday, November 4, 2012

Gratitude

 
God has been gracious enough to give me sober days and a life blessed with peace and contentment, as well as the ability to give and receive love, and the opportunity to serve others -- in our Fellowship, my family and my community. For all of this, I have "a full and thankful heart.
Daily Reflections, p. 93

                                           courtesy AAOnline.net


I am grateful for this minute; my eternity may be in it.
A A = Always Awesome.


 


I have much to be grateful for, my life has been much better than I deserve, for I have been blessed with an abundance of love, generous family, good friends and a spiritual path of joy and freedom.
 
My gratitude list looks like this

 
  • A Power of the Universe, that I choose to call God, is in my life and wants only that I be happy and allows me to build a relationship of trust, honesty, love, forgiveness and freedom.

  •  A woman who has chosen to spend her life with me, believe in me at my depths, love me unconditionally, been a wonderful mother to our children, daughter to my mother and sister to my sisters. My best friend and most loving and forgiving wife.
  • Old friends have returned to my life and forgiven me, while my new friends, always hold their hands out to me to remind that I will never be alone again.
  •  A new way of life that has put me on a journey of joy, peace and serenity that does not have a destination.
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  •  For the food, shelter belongings that sustain me, but don’t identify me.

  •  For skills that allow me to have multiple profession that seem endless and ever evolving.


  •  Recovery and sobriety; the miracle that embraced me and given me more than I ever dreamed possible.


  •  Myself; not so fearful, not so angry, not so full of shame and able to trudge the road to my happy destiny and help others find their paths.
  • Life constantly present storms which must be weathered, what I try to do is not become part of the storm but remain calm through it all. Being grateful and acknowledging God and all that has been done for me is that calming influence.
 
Life isn’t always fair, but it is life and I choose it over the alternative. I have been given tools and choices for good that allow me to put positive energy into the Universe. Life is to be lived “one day at a time”.


Friday, November 2, 2012

Yes Addiction “Hijacks” the Brain

Addiction involves craving for something intensely, loss of control over its use, and continuing involvement with it despite adverse consequences.

Addiction changes the brain, first by subverting the way it registers pleasure and then by corrupting other normal drives such as learning and motivation. Although breaking an addiction is tough hence it can be done.

Addiction extracts a long and powerful influence on the brain that manifests in three distinct ways.

·      Craving for the object of Addiction.

·      Loss of Control over its use.

·      Continuing involvement with it despite Adverse Consequences.

For many years, experts believed that only Alcohol and powerful Drugs could cause Addiction. Neuroimaging technologies and more recent researches, have shown that certain pleasurable Activities, such as Gambling, Shopping, and Sex, can also co-opt the brain.

Although multiple addictions, each tied to a specific substance or activity, consensus is emerging that these may represent multiple expressions of a common underlying brain process.

Nobody starts out intending to develop an Addiction, but many people get caught in its Snare.

In the 1930s, when researchers first began to investigate what caused addictive behavior, they believed that people who developed addictions were somehow morally flawed or lacking in willpower.

Overcoming addiction, they thought, involved punishing miscreants or, alternately, encouraging them to muster the will to break a habit.

Today we recognize addiction as a chronic disease that changes both brain structure and function. Just like.

·      Cardiovascular disease damages the heart.

·      Diabetes impairs the pancreas.

·      Addiction hijacks the brain.

This happens as the brain goes through a series of changes, beginning with recognition of pleasure and ending with a drive toward compulsive behavior.

The brain registers all pleasures in the same way, whether they originate with a psychoactive drug, a monetary reward, a sexual encounter, or a satisfying meal. In the brain, pleasure has a distinct signature: the release of the neurotransmitter dopamine in the nucleus accumbens, a cluster of nerve cells lying underneath the cerebral cortex,

All drugs of abuse, from Alcohol to heroin, cause a particularly powerful surge of dopamine in the nucleus accumbens.

The likelihood that the use of a drug or participation in a rewarding activity will lead to addiction is directly linked to the speed with which it promotes dopamine release, the intensity of that release, and the reliability of that release.

Even taking the same drug through different methods of administration can influence how likely it is to lead to addiction.

Addictive drugs provide a shortcut to the brain’s reward system by flooding the nucleus accumbens with dopamine. The hippocampus lays down memories of this rapid sense of satisfaction, and the amygdala creates a conditioned response to certain stimuli.

Scientists once believed that the experience of pleasure alone was enough to prompt people to continue seeking an addictive substance or activity. But more recent research suggests that the situation is more complicated. Dopamine not only contributes to the experience of pleasure, but also plays a role in learning and memory — two key elements in the transition from liking something to becoming addicted to it.

The reward circuit in the brain includes areas involved with motivation and memory as well as with pleasure. Addictive substances and behaviors stimulate the same circuit, and then overload it.

Determining whether you have addiction isn’t completely straightforward. And admitting it isn’t easy, largely because of the stigma and shame associated with addiction. But acknowledging the problem is the first step toward recovery.

A “yes” answer to any of the following three questions suggests you might have a problem with addiction and should be at the very least stage consult a health care provider for further evaluation and guidance.

1. Do you use more of the substance or engage in the behavior more often than in the past?

2.                       Do you have withdrawal symptoms when you don’t have the substance or engage in the behavior?

3.                       Have you ever lied to anyone about your use of the substance or extent of your behavior?

Over time, the brain adapts in a way that actually makes the sought-after substance or activity less pleasurable.

In nature, rewards usually come only with time and effort. Addictive drugs and behaviors provide a shortcut, flooding the brain with dopamine and other neurotransmitters. Our brains do not have an easy way to withstand the onslaught.

Addictive drugs, can release two to 10 times the amount of dopamine that natural rewards do, and they do it more quickly and more reliably. In a person who becomes addicted, brain receptors become overwhelmed. The brain responds by producing less dopamine or eliminating dopamine receptors — an adaptation similar to turning the volume down on a loudspeaker when noise becomes too loud.

As a result of these adaptations, dopamine has less impact on the brain’s reward center. People who develop an addiction typically find that, in time, the desired substance no longer gives them as much pleasure. They have to take more of it to obtain the same dopamine “high” because their brains have adapted — an effect known as tolerance.

Cravings contribute not only to addiction but to relapse after a hard-won sobriety.

A person addicted to heroin may be in danger of relapse when he sees a hypodermic needle, for example, while another person might start to drink again after seeing a bottle of whiskey. Conditioned learning helps explain why people who develop an addiction risk relapse even after years of abstinence.

It is not enough to “just say no” — as the 1980s slogan suggested. Instead, you can protect and heal (by the help of an ex-problem addict or Alcoholic) from addiction by saying “yes” to other things. Cultivate diverse interests that provide meaning to your life.

 Understand that your problems usually are transient, and perhaps most importantly, acknowledge that life is not always supposed to be pleasurable.

Choice is your’s

 Choose.
 
 
 
Or....?

The fact that most Alcoholics, for reasons yet obscure, have lost the power of choice in drink.
Our so-called will power becomes practically nonexistent. We are unable, at certain times, to bring into memory of the suffering and humiliation of even a week or a month ago.
We are without defense against the first drink.

- Alcoholics Anonymous, p. 24

The first drink has the last say.

N O W = No Other Way.

Thursday, November 1, 2012

If you feel Alcohol ‘hijacked’ you

THINK, THINK, THINK.
 
"Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take,
but by the moments that take our breath away."
 
Don't put a question mark
where God put a period.
Don't wait for 6 strong men
to take you to a Rehab.
 

Physical Effects of Alcohol


See how a person physically
 Effected by Alcohol

From the second you take your first sip, Alcohol Starts Affecting your Body and Mind.  After one or two drinks you may start feeling more Sociable,  but drink too much and basic human functions, such as walking and talking become much harder. You might also start saying things you don’t mean and behaving out of character. Some of alcohol’s effects disappear overnight – while others can stay with you a lot longer, or indeed become permanent.

If you’ve drunk heavily the night before, you’ll almost certainly wake up with a hangover. Alcohol irritates the stomach, so heavy drinking can cause sickness and nausea and sometimes diarrhea. Alcohol also has a dehydrating effect, which is one reason why excessive drinking can lead to a thumping headache the morning after.

In this Drink aware blog you’ll find useful clinically approved facts and information about the effects of alcohol on your life and lifestyle designed to help you make positive decisions about your drinking.



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Appearance

If you’re trying to watch your waistline, drinking too much alcohol can be disastrous! A Research from the Department of Health reveals that a man drinking five pints a week consumes the same number of calories as someone getting through 221 doughnuts a year.

Drinking too much alcohol isn’t great news for your skin either. As well as causing bloating and dark circles under your eyes, alcohol dries out your skin and can lead to wrinkles and premature aging. If you drink heavily you may develop acne rosacea, a skin disorder that starts with a tendency to blush and flush easily and can progress to facial disfiguration, a condition known as rhinophyma
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