Wednesday, September 18, 2013

What is Addiction?

What is Addiction?

If say in one sentence anything taken to an extreme can became an Addiction.
First off all let’s have a look at the types of Addictions/substance abuses.
The following list of addictions is just a partial list.
 


Addictions List
A - Addictions beginning with A
Alcohol
 


A common addiction which seems acceptable in social situations! But is very progressive?
Also a sugar addiction as alcohol and sugar are similar in chemical makeup and synthesize in the body in similar ways.
A depressant type drug which leads to very complicated and repetitive depressions.
Aspirin


Usually acceptable for small pains and fevers and taken in small dosages for heart health, Excesses of intake leads to Addiction, are not good.
Aerosol sniffing
Action - any activity that is risky and produces adrenalin
Adrenalin
The body self produces this 'fight or flight' drugs. Does progressive need greater risks to achieve the same feeling?
Amphetamines, Anti Depressants


Addiction to prescribed medications is quite common, because a series of educated professionals have been involved in the process of this addiction it is quite hard to stop.
Often depressions occur as a result of caffeine, nicotine, alcohol and/or sugar addictions. These root addictions need to be addressed to achieve good recovery.
Anti Depressants generally are designed to trigger the release of a self produced hormonal drug called serotonin which is the feel good drug produced by the body. The addiction to the anti depressant is actually an addiction to the self produced drug serotonin. Good recovery will include ways to naturally trigger the serotonin. One way of doing this is included in the 12 step way of recovery - particularly in the 12th step - by doing random acts of kindness.
Art
Getting high to produce better art is common. Also the lifestyle of an impoverished artist can be addictive.
Collecting art one can not afford may create adrenalin like compulsive shopping or gambling.
Asthma
A condition that is often worsened by the addiction to the rescue medication
Adrenalin is produced when the asthmatic fights for the next breath to the point where life threatening experiences become regular and no longer cause the body to produce the required adrenalin.
Attention
Authority
Auto Racing
B - Addictions beginning with B
Bulimia
Purging excess calories from a binge by vomiting or over exercising the actual addiction is to the eating part…Often sugar addiction.
Barbiturates
A common drug addiction
Betting


Gamblers get a high from the adrenalin produced by their bodies while in action. The larger the risk the greater the amount of adrenalin Bestiality
Sex with animals to produce adrenalin and endorphins present in sex situations. Carries a great deal of guilt and shame in today's religious society
Guilt and shame also produces addictive adrenalin directly in the body.
C - Addictions beginning with C
Colas


Many soft drinks contain large amounts of addictive sugar and caffeine which create mood swings and may be diagnosed as polar or other manic behavioral disorders.
Sugar assimilates in the body the same way alcohol does and is a strong depressant.
Symptoms of sugar addiction are often heavy depressions and manic behavior.
Codependency
An adrenalin addiction caused by living in chaos
Codependents will often force crisis to get another supply of adrenalin
Codependents often hide their more socially acceptable addictions behind another persons addictions
All addicts are co dependents as well
Cocaine and Crack Cocaine


A common powerful and illegal street drug High is produced from the drug and as well the illegal activity produces adrenalin
Caffeine


Produces a high when coffee, tea, soft drinks or chocolate are consumed
Usually socially acceptable but it is progressive and the body requires more drug to get same feeling over time
Usually combined with sugar for an even greater high
Like any high the resulting lows are present and cause severe depressions and mood swings
Coin collecting
Usually a nice hobby but any hobby can become a compulsion in the hands of a multiple addict Expensive and can produce a gamblers adrenalin high by overestimating the value of finds
Adrenalin is addictive and progressive so greater finds must be made.
Crime
Pure adrenalin in its highest form when life or reputation is threatened Addictive in those higher risks must be taken to achieve the same high.Very difficult cycle to interrupt as punishments also produce life threatening experiences which keep the addiction going.
Coffee
Produces a caffeine high when consumed Usually socially acceptable but it is progressive and the body requires more drug to get same feeling over time Usually combined with sugar for an even greater high
Like any high the resulting lows are present and cause severe depressions and mood swings Depressions associated with coffee addictions are often misdiagnosed and simply add heavy medications to the addicts’ life.
Withdrawal from caffeine is about four days of flue like symptoms which is relatively short if cut out completely and compared to years of taking anti depressants.
D - Addictions beginning with D
Drugs


Illegal Street drugs produce various highs as well as adrenalin highs associated with illegal activities. Prescription drugs for depression related disorders often medicate symptoms when the root causes may be simple sugar and caffeine addictions
Many over the counter drugs contain large amounts of sugar as well which add to depressions and manic behaviors Some medical drugs are helpful of course.
Drunk Driving
Adrenalin high produced by the high risk illegal activity of drinking and driving. Extremely high risk as life is usually at stake.
Diuretics
Eating disorder associated addiction Produces adrenalin which gives a feeling of power over ones self
E - Addictions beginning with E
Ego
You name it!
Exercising (excessive)


Adrenalin and endorphins produced Addictive and progressive in that more exertion must be accomplished to achieve the same high
Endorphins
A healthy drug produced in the body and brain Unhealthy sex, porn, crime, gambling and exercise addictions are symptoms of this basic drug addiction
F - Addictions beginning with F
Fantasizing (excessive) as opposed to dreaming,
Food addiction


Usually associated with the results of cravings caused by sugar addiction Artificial sweeteners are appetite enhancers and cause huge cravings Excessive food can act as dull feelings
Fetishes
Adrenalin addiction caused by self created adrenalin induced by the fear or fantasy
G - Addictions beginning with G
Gambling


Gamblers get a high from the adrenalin produced by their bodies while in action. The larger the risk the greater the amount of adrenalin
H - Addictions beginning with H
Heroin and Opium
Husbands/Wives (relationships),
I - Addictions beginning with I
Isolation, Imagination
A good characteristic in most cases, but a luxury for an early recovering addict ... and a self destructive minefield for a practicing addict Living in "your head" is common amongst all addicts
One statistic is that addicts do approximately 80,000 words of self talk per day - so this addicted ' head ' is a very busy place One saying in 12 step programs is that the head is like 'a dangerous neighborhood, do not go there alone' The lack of reliable structure in today's daily life leaves a lot of room for imaginative research
Internet


Many addictions are available on the internet Sex, Porn, gambling, relationships to name a few Most porn and gambling activities produce adrenalin which is highly addictive.
J - Addictions beginning with J
Joking about serious matters
Hiding behind humor is usually a codependent family behavior
Job (workaholism)


An addiction to the controllable living space afforded by work Provides the endorphins associated with being appreciated Junk collecting
K - Addictions beginning with K
Kinky sex - see sex addiction below
Kleptomania
A form of adrenalin addiction where a high is produced by the illegal act of theft
L - Addictions beginning with L
Lust
Laziness
Love


Lacquer thinners
Liquor
M - Addictions beginning with M
Masturbation
Masochism,
Meetings (as in hiding in meeting)
Men
Marriage
Muscle Relaxants
Marijuana
N - Addictions beginning with N
Nicotine


Narcotics
O - Addictions beginning with O
Over achieving
Over eating
Usually affiliated with sugar addiction
Over working
Over anything can become an addiction
Occult

P - Addictions beginning with P
Prayer (without action)
Pleasure
Phobias
Blocked energy due to overwhelmed or unidentifiable feelings which produce 'fight or flight' adrenalin within the body sometimes caused by unresolved grief
Abusive situations may also be a phobia breeding ground as family or others who should be trusted are not trustworthy leaving gaps in an individual’s structure system.
Prescription Drugs


Addiction or dependence upon prescribed medications. Commonly, though not always, is within the mood modifying drug family. Giving up the long dependencies on prescribed drugs is best done with the help of medical professionals and sometimes requires a detoxification facility to ease unpredictable withdrawal symptoms
Pornography
People Pleasing
Perfectionism
Pain Killers
Q - Addictions beginning with Q
Quintessential Behavior (perfectionism)... sorry had to have aQ :)
R - Addictions beginning with R
Religion
It is wise to examine ones attitudes in all areas. Relationships - Click here for relationships page Racetrack betting and action
Risky behaviors
Sports or work related high risk ventures Adrenalin addiction caused by receiving large doses of self produced adrenalin
S - Addictions beginning with S
Sex Addiction


In abusive or negative forms sex can be an adrenalin addiction caused by receiving large amounts of self produced adrenalin
Adrenalin addiction is a progressive addiction where exciting events become usual and greater excitement must be reached to produce the same high.
This is dangerous when sex acts are used to produce the adrenalin as abusive situations may occur
Sexuality is often confusing and care must be taken to not block sexual energy, which is necessary to achieve a positive energy flow through the body.
Sadism


Adrenalin addiction caused receiving self produced adrenalin in a slave /master situation Common in codependent relationships
Satanism
Adrenalin addiction caused by receiving large doses of self produced adrenalin leading up to and during highly charged rituals or ceremonies
In extreme cases where sacrificial ceremonies occur the adrenalin is increased by ingesting still more highly concentrated adrenalin found in blood of freshly sacrificed animal.
The combined high is often thought to be spiritual when it is actually double dosing on adrenalin
Smoking
Addiction to nicotine and other addictive substances present in tobacco, marijuana, cocaine, opium and other sources
The smoked substances also sometimes include other hidden addictive substances to make them an even larger rush and a more marketable product.
Shopping


Serotonin - the self produced drug of choice for manic depression and bipolar folks
SELF – ego
Self Help Books, programs
Self Mutilation
Spotlights (see fame)
Sniffing Solvents
Sleeping
Sleeping Pills
Shock Treatments
Speed
Steroids
T - Addictions beginning with T
Torturing - emotionally or physically - Power addiction
Television


Therapy - codependency as opposed to getting on with life.
Thinners
Thrills
Tobacco
Tramadol
Tranquilizers
Travel
Trichotillomania - Pulling out own hair compulsively.
U - Addictions beginning with U
Ultram - Narcotic Like Pain Reliever aka Tramadol Underachieving
V - Addictions beginning with V
Valium
Vandalism
Vicodin - watch some old shows of the series "House!"
Video
Video Games


Violence
Voodoo
Vomiting - see Bulimia
Voyeurism
W - Addictions beginning with W
Wealth
Weed
Weightlifting
Women
Work
Wheat Flour – Carbohydrates
X - Addictions beginning with X
X-box - see Gaming
XXX Movies and Magazines
Y - Addictions beginning with Y
Young Sex
Z - Addictions beginning with Z
Zoo sex (sex with animals)
 
This addictions list excerpt is adapted from the writings of Addictionz.com. Concerning anger and addiction, to Help to identify causes like Adrenalin and endorphins associated with high risk behaviors, Help to establish a effective support group to assist with arresting this behavior, Help to establish a workable time frame to achieve the goal of stopping drinking and driving, Helpful Hints on how to Grieve the loss of this behavior, Help to maintain the ability to not drink/do Drugs.
This list of addictions is provided as a reference for multiple addicts to allow them to more quickly realize the full extent of their dependencies.
Not all addicts will be addicted to the same things, many blends, combinations and permutations will exist simultaneously with the multiple addict. As well, all addictions usually start with a positive result but end up becoming a commitment in themselves.

Now the brief description of the first question,
What is Addiction?
Addiction is, by its very nature, a wily opponent. Ask any compulsive gambler, an adrenalin addict whose addictive chemicals are entirely self produced, if they wanted to lose the 'entire farm' to get their high from gambling. The answer will typically be a very sad no.The body will do some very tricky things to get the chemicals it craves, including rearranging thought and emotional processes.
Hence an anxiety attack can sometimes be 'conjured up' by the body to gain access to the drug dosage from both the self produced drug adrenalin and the prescribed medication, alcohol or street drug.
Since effects of a conjured up anxiety attack are exactly the same effects as an authentic one, the difference between the two is not important.
The drugs are the same in both instance and the withdrawal cycle repeats itself by enabling more anxiety symptoms. Simply recognizing the possibility of the above statements sheds an entirely new light on the concept of addiction.
Is it entirely symptomatic?
Definitely not! But the recovery process is definitely confused and hampered by the roadblocks that the addiction and withdrawal cycles introduce to the equation. Especially since they are very often unnoticed

Ok let’s see what fuels to Addiction?
Addiction/compulsivity in many ways, several of the relationships between anger and addiction are listed below.
1. Acting-out in addiction can be passive-aggressive way of “getting back” at somebody else.
2. Unresolved anger toward a parent, spouse, perpetrator of violence/abuse can “fuel” destructive impulses within the addiction.
3. Being passive with anger fuels shame, which in turn fuels addiction.
4. Intense anger can distort rationale though processes allowing decisions to be made that set one up for relapse
5. Anger combined with being in a victim role can lead to “destructive entitlement” in which one feels justified in victimizing somebody else (cheating on spouse, verbally assaulting somebody, going through partner’s notebook from therapy, etc.).
6. Anger can be an emotional wall, which inhibits intimacy, which can result in loneliness and therefore, an impulse to act out.
7. Anger can result in a disinhibition of moral values allowing one to engage in addictive behaviors he/she otherwise would not consider doing (e.g. going to a topless bar), resulting in a need to “stir up the pot” of conflict/anger to silence the part of self that says “don’t do this, it isn’t right!”
8. Fear of another person’s anger can result in the avoidance of conflict and turning to the addiction for a means of escaping the negative consequences of unresolved conflict.
9. Fear of one’s own anger or the belief anger is “bad”, can result in the use of the addiction to avoid the experience of anger, or to avoid becoming aggressive.
10. Anger used to assertively set boundaries, allows for the development and maintenance of healthy self-esteem and true intimacy, which are crucial for recovery.
11. Anger directed at the messages and behaviors that led to shame, fear, and modeling of destructive coping mechanisms, can result in a rejection of those beliefs/behaviors and a true healing of related emotional wounds.
12. Anger expressed openly/honestly/assertively within relationships can allow for a deeper intimacy to emerge, allowing addiction to become “less necessary.”
Is Addiction Recovery Possible?


Yes of course, It is tremendously gratifying on so many levels to watch a dejected, lost soul emerge from their drugged cocoon and morph spiritually into a productive member of society capable of living within a renewed belief system. These folks, if they tend to their recovery properly and continue to put good things into their lives, will eventually even be able to be spiritually present in relationships as well.
Often their addictions started when they were very young, so much maturing will be necessary. The process is uphill though and is very gratifying. This site is meant to give assistance and hope to folks who have been encountering roadblocks in their recovery.
True addiction recovery lies in the ability to deal with root issues, not simply medicate the symptoms of them."
You do not have to carry yesterday's hurt and damaged feelings into today.
A fresh supply of new feelings is yours for the taking!
"There is a difference between knowing the path and walking the path!"
A great tool for Addictions and Relationship Counselors Use it yourself as part of your Step 4 or to find yourself in a muddled up codependent relationship
The cycle of Addiction and Codependency with alcoholics or any other type of addict requires three main people/groups of people:
The Enablers:
Those who allow /excuse/ finance/ bailout the alcoholic/addict.
The Persecutors:
Those who stir up the pot in order to put the alcoholic/addict on the defense and look for a way out of the pain.
The Victims:
Those who wallow in the excuse that someone is abusing/picking on/insulting/not recognizing their good qualities.
In the normal cycle of addicted relationships the enablers, the persecutors and the victims occupy all these roles at various times and to varying degrees - the fact that all persons switch roles makes it very difficult to assess anything until a crisis occurs.
There are currently over 1000 different self help organizations, some undoubtedly more effective than others. Most do not have fees but may pass the kitty for a few coins to help them pay room rent etc. Consult your local telephone directory to or contact your local crisis line, check community listings or ask your doctor for a recommendation. If all else fails call a local AA office, they can usually point you in the right direction.
Addiction Recovery cases vary according to the type and source of the addiction. What ever the addiction the fastest way to a solid recovery is by using a slow and steady approach.
An addiction is described as a three fold disease.
Chemical
Emotional
Spiritual
The recipe for great recovery from addiction requires a balance of physical and emotional abstinence, a pinch of spiritual growth and a 1/2 a cup of common sense:
Keep in contact with people who have good recovery. Even the saints/scientists’  has advisors so why wouldn't you.
Take advantage of all proper recovery assistance that is available to you.

Attend and get involved with 12 step meetings on a regular basis, if you don't like the group you are at, try another. For fledgling 12 step members an open AA meeting is always helpful.
Watch for other addictions. If your recovery isn't going too well, the chances are good that you may have additional addictions in action. It is also very common for recovering addicts to simply switch addictions. Find positive addictions.
Look after the little things, the big things always will look after themselves!
Emotional Maintenance
“Defrag” your brain and clear out the old emotional files (e-files): Write a wish list and keep it in a safe place.
Write an accomplished this year list and keep it in a safe place.
Use a time management tool of some sort and clear out the accomplishments at the end of each day, more often on especially cluttered days. Credit yourself for all accomplishments
Write a jot list of your current feelings at any given moment, make sure you are not feeling someone else's feelings or putting your feelings in politically correct categories. Throw this list away as you get fresh new feelings every day, no need to hang on to the old damaged ones.
Write a list of recovery goals that you would like to achieve and keep it in a safe place.
Archive your past memories and associated feelings by collecting all the photos you have or can acquire about your life to date, put them in order in a photo album. This can free up a great amount of space in your personal operating memory and allow you to go forward in your recovery, quicker.


 
Five simple rules of happiness:
1. Free your heart from hatred.
2. Free your mind from worries.
3. Live simply.
4. Give more.
5. Expect less.
 
5 Stages of Grief
1. Denial
2. Anger
3. Bargaining
4. Depression
5. Non-Acceptance
Best Wishes on your recovery journey.