Resentment

It is plain that a life which includes deep resentment leads only to futility and unhappiness. To the precise extent that we permit these, do we squander the hours that might have been worth while. But with the alcoholic, whose hope is the maintenance and growth of a spiritual experience, this business of resentment is infinitely grave. We found that it is fatal.
- Alcoholics Anonymous, p. 66

 

We are prisoners of our own resentments.
A A = Altered Attitudes.

No man will succeed unless he is ready to face and overcome difficulties and is prepared to assume responsibilities.
By William J.H. Boetcher

Judgment

One unkind tirade or one willful snap judgment can ruin our relation with another person for a whole day, or maybe a whole year. Nothing pays off like restraint of tongue and pen.
- Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions, p. 91
By what measure I judge others, I judge myself. By what measure I forgive others, I forgive myself.
P U T = Patience, Understanding, Tolerance.

 

Hi AA family, I'm Venki, and I'm an recovering alcoholic. and i'm asking a question to me. 
Q :- Do I judge.....?  
A :- Yes, I do. And I don't think it’s always a bad thing. To judge can mean to form an opinion, to be able to make critical distinctions and achieve a balanced viewpoint; discernment. I judge if someone has, what I want in sobriety. I judge if I have time to cross the street before that car coming knocks me down. And I even talk it over with trusted AA friends for me that's ok. When it becomes not ok, is when I use my own judgment, or "discernment" (the nicer word for it) to treat someone as less than; or to snub someone, or in a way that will harm them. 
Yes, the things I tend to judge tend to be things I dislike within myself. So it can be helpful, especially when I talk it over with my councilor and trusted AA friends. They point out to me that I'm struggling with the same thing. Then I know what action to take -- to ask God for help in removing this thing that causes me distress, and to help me treat others with compassion. 
Q :- Am I good at it....? 
A :- Sometimes yes, and sometimes no. These are just my thoughts on it, and on growing in sobriety.

Spirituality

AA is a spiritual program and a spiritual way of life. Even the first half of the First Step, "We admitted we were powerless over alcohol,” is a spiritual experience. . .Yes, I began with blind faith, but the proof of truth is that it works . . . The truth was there for me to see.
- Came To Believe, p. 3.
There is no materialism in AA -- just spirituality.

F A I T H = Facing An Inner Truth Heals.

 

 

Step Twelve

"Having had a spiritual awakening as a result of these steps, we tried to carry this message to alcoholics, and to practice these principles in all our affairs".

" The Twelth Step seems to carry this implicit warning: "If you are not having at least the beginnings of a spiritual awakening, it would be well to look back over the Steps and find out where you are failing." And there are no qualifying words, such as "maybe," "perhaps," or "perchance."
- The Best of the Grapevine [Vol. 1], pp. 180-181

A spiritual awakening is our greatest gift.
S T E P S = Solutions Through Each Positive Step.

 

Family

Family is,
heaven sent from our father above,
bonded by the power of love. No matter what family has each others back, when push comes to shove.

Family is,
understanding, never demanding,
all for one and one for all, I will never leave you alone standing.

Family is,
one in itself, my love is your love,
your pain is my pain, my wealth is your wealth, I promise to never leave you by yourself.

Family is,
the strongest team, the strongest unit;
if love could be visualized, family would be the blue print.

Family is,
forgiveness and patience,
it's sweeter than the sweetest fragrance, the power of family is a reflection of Gods compassion and magnificence.

Family is,
never turning our back, and never shames, lend my helping hand and not a finger pointing the blame.

No matter what a family bond can never be broken, even through a nuclear explosion, if one of us lives we all live. Forever to eternity, we are family, my father, my mother, my sisters, my wife, and me.

Source: -The Power Of Family,