LIVE, Be HAPPY!

Smile. Let the world see your beautiful smile, even though today may not be a happy  day, this week might be one of your worst weeks in a while, or you may even be experiencing the roughest few months that you have experienced in your whole lifetime. Remember that a smile is the first step in turning around whatever turmoil that you are experiencing.

Laugh. Laughing is not only beneficial to us in the moment by the release of endorphins that make us feel happy, but laughter has many great long term effects on our minds and our bodies if we continue to do it on a regular basis.

Give. Giving is one of the most beneficial acts that we can commit, not only is it good for the beneficiaries, but it also will make you feel great on the inside.

Dream. Never forget to dream, because when you stop dreaming, you stop living.

Explore. Figure out who you really are by seeing and meeting new things and people.

Wonder. Never stop being curious, and never stop exploring the things that you are curious about.

Create. Be sure to make your mark on the world by the time your life is over. Create your brand by showing the world who you are at your heart's level, and make it so the world will never forget.

Live. Last but not least live life as the person that you truly are, do not sway from this person, and never settle, blaze your own path through life.

 

Doing these things will allow for you to live a happy, and fulfilled life, without regret, and will also serve as an inspiration to many others.

Who is your perfect & true soul mate

“People think a soul mate is our perfect fit, and that's what everyone wants. “But a true soul mate is a mirror” the person who shows you everything that is holding you back, the person who brings you to your own attention so you can change your life.

 

A true soul mate is probably the most important person you'll ever meet, because they tear down your walls and smack you awake. But to live with a soul mate forever? Not. Too painful. Soul mates, they come into your life just to reveal another layer of yourself to you, and then leave.

A soul mates purpose is to shake you up, tear apart your ego a little bit, show you your obstacles and addictions, break your heart open so new light can get in, make you so desperate and out of control that you have to transform your life, then introduce you to your spiritual master...”

Learning to accept ourself is a challenging feat

 

 

Do you feel happy with yourself, just as you are? Do you wish you could stop longing to be different? Do you need to learn to accept yourself?

If you don’t feel happy with some aspect of your personality or your looks, you’re not alone. Despite the abundance of blessings we may possess, it is human nature to become preoccupied with what we don’t have. Celebrities and supermodels have proved that having an enviable appearance and thousands of worshippers doesn’t come without insecurity. It can be disheartening to learn that even people who seemingly ‘have it all’ – money, fame, looks – don’t necessarily feel happy with themselves. But there is an important lesson to be learned from this paradox; happiness has to come from within.

Learning to accept oneself is a challenging feat. With so many messages bombarding us on a daily basis, telling us what to eat, how much we need to exercise, what to wear, and how to act, it is difficult not to become focused on having nicer thighs, or better social skills, or a more sizzling love life. But chances are you have been given a lot of things to be thankful for: a great smile, natural ability in the kitchen, or a calming demeanor. Self-acceptance means taking both the positive and negative aspects of your personality and learning to live – and be happy – with them.

There’s an important distinction to be made between self-improvement and self-acceptance. If you’re too hard on yourself, if you’re constantly focusing on your weaknesses instead of your strengths, or if you don’t need an excuse to blame yourself for things that go wrong in your life, you need to learn to practice self-acceptance. Once you’ve learned to love the whole you, including the good, the bad, and the ‘ugly’ – you can move forward with self-improvement. None of us are perfect – but there’s a fine line between creating healthy and achievable goals for yourself and cutting into yourself whenever you make a mistake. Self-acceptance gives you the freedom to make mistakes.

New Life New Possibilities

Self acceptance is love and happy with whom you are now. It’s an agreement with yourself to appreciate, validate, accept and support who you are at this moment.

For example, think of acceptance of yourself like being okay with your house right now. One day you might want a bigger house or you have this dream house in your mind, but there are advantages to your smaller home now. So you can be happy with the house you have now and still dream of your bigger house as a reality later.

Self acceptance leads to a new life with new possibilities that did not exist before because you were caught up in the struggle against reality. People have trouble accepting themselves because of a lack of motivation. Some have the misconception that if you are happy with yourself you won’t change things about yourself. This isn’t true; you don’t have to be unhappy with yourself to know and actively change things you don’t like. Acceptance could be called the first step in change

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